The Speaking Up Course

You go quiet when it counts

The meeting, the toast, the hard conversation. Learn to say what you mean, speak in front of people and be heard.

About 2 hours, in 24 short sections. Do one a day or the lot in one go. Included in your membership.

The Speaking Up Course

By the end you'll have

  • Your speaking fears named, and the one place you most want to get better at speaking up
  • A 60-second calm-down routine you use before you speak
  • A simple shape that works for any talk, meeting point or pitch
  • A toast or short talk written, practised out loud and recorded
  • A script for the hard conversation you've been putting off
  • Your own words for saying no, ready to use
  • One real speaking rep booked, done and looked back on

What's inside

Part 1: Where You Stand

The diploma on Buffett's wall · The crew who hinted · Gandhi sat down · Climb a speaking ladder

Part 2: Taming the Nerves

Don't calm down, get excited · Breathe out longer · They can't see your knees shake · When Churchill went blank

Part 3: Say One Thing Well

Tap out a song · Stories beat stats · Two hours, two minutes · The pause and the pose

Part 4: Toasts, Eulogies and Pitches

The toast in three moves · Saying goodbye well · Write the memo first · Pebbles in his mouth

Part 5: Speaking Up Every Day

Good teams report more mistakes · The DESC script · Start with what you really want · Talk like a negotiator

Part 6: No, Asks and Real Reps

Focus means saying no · They'll say yes more than you think · Get your reps in · The man who speaks up

Built on 14 books, studies and guidelines. Every section has something to do, and things you can share with the other men in The Club Room.

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