The Divorce Course

Your marriage is ending, or already over

The house, the kids, the money and the quiet nights. Get through a separation without losing yourself, and come out the other side standing.

About 2 hours, in 24 short sections. Do one a day or the lot in one go. Included in your membership.

The Divorce Course

By the end you'll have

  • A survival plan for the next 30 days: sleep, food, drink and the three people you'll talk to
  • A co-parenting approach that fits your situation, and a calm message template for hard messages
  • Your rules for the kids' sake, written down where you'll see them
  • Your key admin list: lawyer, mediation, money and documents, with first dates set
  • A plan for the lonely nights and the weekends without the kids
  • A plan for your new home and your weekly routine
  • A clear picture of who you want to be on the other side, and your first step towards him

What's inside

Part 1: Where You Really Stand

Work the problem · The risk nobody mentions · Grief without a funeral · Most men come through

Part 2: The First 30 Days

Shackleton's routine · Sleep when your head won't stop · The drink that makes it worse · Your 30-day survival plan

Part 3: The Kids Come First

It's the fighting, not the divorce · Never the messenger · Cooperative or parallel · Dad in two homes

Part 4: Dealing With Your Ex

Lincoln's hot letter · The BIFF reply · Mediation before court · The admin list

Part 5: Money, Home and Nights

Money when your head's a mess · A shell that fits · The quiet nights · Shoulder to shoulder

Part 6: The Man on the Other Side

Writing it out, carefully · Green shoots on a black trunk · When to date again · Standing on the other side

Built on 14 books, studies and guidelines. Every section has something to do, and things you can share with the other men in The Club Room.

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