Same table. Same men. Every week.
Most men over 40 have nobody they'd ring at 2am. Not because they're unlikeable. Because mates need a reason to keep turning up, and life took the reasons away. The club gives you one back.
How a table works
Day one, the club is two rooms. The club room, where you post and ask and reply, and the bar, an open chat that's always on. Both private to members, so men can say the real thing.
Next come tables: eight men, the same eight every week, one hour online, for a year. That's the structure that turns a forum into mates.
Same men
Friendship is built by repetition, not chemistry. Eight men who turn up for each other fifty times become mates whether they mean to or not.
One hour
Short enough that nobody skips it. Each man says how his week actually went. No advice unless he asks for it.
No fixing
A table is not therapy and it's not a mastermind. Nobody's there to sort you out. They're there to know you.
Your course, together
When men on a table are doing the same course, they do it together. A man with seven others watching finishes.
Then a real table
When there are a dozen members in a city, a table opens at a real pub, café or club. Once a month to start. The online tables keep going; the local one is where it stops being an app and starts being your life.
Members say which city they're in when they join. The first real tables open where the first dozen men are.
The rules of the table
- What's said at the table stays at the table
- Turn up. If you can't, say so before, not after
- Nobody gives advice unless a man asks for it
- No selling, no recruiting, no business cards
- Every man speaks. The quiet one goes first next week
- If a man is in real trouble, the table gets him real help. Here's how